My Son Heads off to Boot Camp 10/10/17
One night together on the patio with some... interesting cigars!
Even though he has been on his own for the last 18 months I am going to miss him every day!
Even though he has been on his own for the last 18 months I am going to miss him every day!
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It will be a good experience for him and on one hand I am a little jealous of what he will go through and the friendships he will form. On the other hand there is the practical understanding of the risks involved. Of course, he wants to go recon, if you're going to be a bear be a grizzly I guess.
He is 21, almost 22, so he has some real world experience already. I expect he will do well in this environment.
And let us all say: Amen.
@randelli I'm an old jarhead from Viet Nam. Tell him to not volunteer for anything during boot camp. The ones who thought they were special and tried to prove themselves to the Drill Instructors, only crashed and burned. I kept my head low and did what they told me and low and behold, I would up being Guide of my platoon and received my dress blues free! Here's another secret. There will be 3 DI's in charge of his boot camp platoon. The 1st plays the role of the "good guy" (not really all that good). The 2nd plays the role of the "make your life miserable", and the 3rd plays the role of "sent from hell to make your life a living hell" (no one can do anything right for this guy). If he know that going in, it may help him cope with the situations he will encounter during boot...
My prayers will be with him...
Prayers up for your son, and ALL of our military. Just remind him ALL of the DI's were once where he will stand on the painted footprints upon his arrival. If at that time he does not feel some sense of "what did I do" he just has no feelings whatsoever. I STILL want to know how they train all of the DI's to have the same voice.
Also remind him the first part of Boot Camp is the break the individual mindset of the recruits, the second half is to then turn them into a "team".
Please keep us all informed of his progress (you won't hear from him for the first 2 or 3 weeks after the "phonecall". In a very special way he represents all of our sons.
My wife will have to drive me home though...
Being a wiseass, I told him that my experience was that if you stick it out, someone will cut it off.
The ultimate sacrifice, being Gung-ho to stand behind your child, who has made the offer to lay down their life if need be. These are the men, who have truly made this country great, make no mistake about it!
January 6 is the scheduled graduation date. We assume all is well - not many letters coming home but what we get sounds good. They made him a squad leader early on and they have not fired him as of his last letter which is kinda surprising. Not that he can't handle it; just that I hear it is pretty typical to be fired as part of the training.
He turns 22 in 13 days and gets to spend Christmas in the gas chamber. How fun!
Most of the family is planning to go to the graduation... but he goes home with us
For a little while at least.