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I think I am done....

Well as I told PappyJoe just a minute ago, I think I am about done with this Site!  I busted my ass trying to strike up interesting conversations, I tried to better the site by making suggestions and having everyone add their input for the admins to make this a better site and what do I get? Disrespected! Not that I really cared about the Rankings but when someone tries to help the site and make it fun and they screw with them and take away all their rankings it kind of sends a message or to me it does.  I made posts, I added threads, I made many comments and tried to have lots of topics for everyone to have fun on and learn on.  What does TLP do to me? Drop my rank lower than anyone was dropped, never thanked me for caring enough to get everyone together to better their site and not answer any of my questions to them.  I wasn't looking for a that a boy but I also didn't want the disrespect I feel they gave me.
On top of all that they announced a few of us won the last drawing yet I personally never got a request for my address and have never heard nor seen anything from them or received anything in the mail from them.....What about the others? Have you heard or received your prize for the drawings? 
I feel this site is prejudice against me now and I feel a few members don't like me either so I think I will just leave the page and find another pipe place or just stay away from all pipe related sites.  I can say one thing, Cigar sites are much nicer and respectful to their members!
Maybe you should learn from this or not.....I guess one last thing I am doing for this page is teaching them they need to show more respect to ALL members Especially ones that want to make their site better.....
For those who did like chatting with me, I am on Instagram and will be starting a YouTube Page soon, follow me if you want or not, that is up to you.
Or send me a message here, I will still get alerts and might check in for the rest of this month off and on but don't expect to see me make posts or make comments on here. 
 
Later, Smokinwolf41035@instagram
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  • Heck, I was a professor now I'm a newcomer. No big deal, I'm sure they will get everything straightened out. I was never big on titles anyways
  • edited September 2017

    @Wolf410335

    I wish you'd reconsider. I too lost points and went from something like 13 badges to 4, and have yet to get my points restored to what they were before the switch. And like you I was supposedly announced as one of the winner, but have yet to receive my prize ... but it won't keep me from contributing on a daily basis. I understand your frustration but nothing you mentioned is worth quitting over. You've remained one of the active members who contributes on a daily basis - and as such I've always felt you were a respected member of the Community. For the life of me I can't recall a post where you were ostracized by a fellow member. I've never been on a Cigar site so I can't speak for them but I've always felt this was a very respectful Community and don't recall (since I've been here) any flame wars or disrespectful comments made against a fellow member.

    I've enjoyed your posts and try to respond as often as possible. I've created a few posts that went nowhere - but I've also had some with very good results. It all depends on the topic. I think the amount of responses has everything to do with the topic and level of interest someone has in that particular topic more so than their personal feeling towards me or the person posting the message. So since the problem seems to be affecting all of us in some way or another don't assume they're singling you out. After all it makes no sense for the Moderators to infuriate the handful of daily contributors because they are the engine that drives this little machine. And since you're one of the spark plugs that helps keep this engine running smoothly it would be a shame for you to leave because of a few glitches still in the system. 

    I've never responded to messages based solely on the member's status. Whether someone is a Newcomer, Apprentice, Enthusiast, Professor, Connoisseur, or what-ever comes next, that's never been my criterion for responding to a post. And I imagine others feel the same way. There are Newcomers here who have been smoking as long or longer than myself, with much more knowledge than I have about the hobby. The only difference is they are new to the site. Your particular status in no way reflects your knowledge or experience. So I wouldn't be too concerned about your current status mix-up. I know that you know what you're talking about. You've proven your expertise time-and-again. But I completely understand your frustration. Have patients, I'm sure things will get back to normal. In one respect the site is actually more user friendly for some who use devices other than a home computer, like I use. So rather than do something drastic like abandoning the group altogether consider a brief vacation of a week or so. Maybe by then you'll see your status, points, and badges restored.

    One important thing we all need to remember is this is a free site - we are not charged a fee for being a member. Were that the case we'd have a better leg to stand on when the services provided don't meet our expectations.   

    And to the Moderators - as you can see, to some of us this is a big issue. Especially those who are regular contributors. I'm not asking for special privileges ... but it seems like those who contribute on a daily basis to keep the place active and relevant should have been among the first you restored to their original status after the changes. It's easy enough to see who is contributing regularly, so whoever is assigned the task of restoring a members status to their original position should make it a priority. Or at least put some underling on the case while you focus your attention on the major bugs.       

  • Please don't go. I don't think of you as your rank and neither does anyone else. I think of you as @Wolf41035 because in This Pipe Life that's your name. Who you are to me is your comments and contributions, not your rank.

    A bunch of us got knocked back, and I don't think anyone thought less of anyone else because of it.  I mean, I got teased, but others found company in their grievances.

    Talk about discrimination: I have not heard of anyone complaining about being locked out of TPL. I've been locked out of the site twice: once from the old site, and again immediately following the change over. That second time was for less than a week, but the first time I had to re-register and post under an new name for a couple of weeks until Lady Nicole got it straightened out. (They never explained what happened/what caused the snafu...). So, this time, Lady Nicole gets me back in (fortunately I kept her email address from the first lock out), but once in I found myself bumped up to Commonsewer for no stated reason, while at the same time losing more than half my badges. Go figure. Like with aging, many of us seem to have been affected in various ways by the change over.

    I know I received more blessing than curse, but honestly, I've noticed that being bumped up in rank has had remarkably little impact on my life. I think the whole ranking thing is silly anyway: it's simply a marketing tool to foster the competitive spirit in a bunch of pipe smoking individualists, and keep us coming back. Anyone who frequents the folders very quickly learns who is knowledgeable, who is clever, who is creative, and who is a  curmudgeon.  Interestingly, I have not found any of our members to be mean folk.  And some of y'all have become almost like friends.
  • I got busted too.  I'm an apprentice again.  I still like the conversations here.
  • @motie2 What category is my forte ... knowledgeable, clever, creative or curmudgeon? I'd like to be remembered as a bit of each. As a matter of fact I may just have that written on my tombstone. "He lie's Joe The Ghosts - a clever, creative, knowledgeable curmudgeon."   
  • motie2motie2 Master
    edited September 2017
    @ghostsofpompeii -- The answer to your question would be a resounding YES, but for my uncertainty concerning your curmudgeon bona fides. And your tender years? 

    But I digress: Wolf, please don't go.
  • @Wolf41035, I know I'm new here so please don't think I'm overstepping when I say 'don't take it personal '. I was a registered member for almost 6 months before I was allowed to post. Even though I checked in several times a day during that time my 'visits' count was reset to zero with the software reboot.  I have enjoyed and learned from everyone here and hope that you would reconsider..  This is a great group of folks and you have a good and honorable standing among them.
  • I'm hoping he comes back once the bugs are worked out of the new system. Everyone's ranking has been messed up since the update and no one knows how the new ranking system works. Some of us have been restored and others have seen no signs of regaining their status. @Wolf41035 is one of those and it's important to him. 
  • Isn't all about the fellowship of the pipe anyway? My ranking went down too! I don't care, I enjoy the fellowship!!
  • Nothing warms my heart, like an old curmudgeon's rant!
  • Brother sorry that you feel disrespected I hope you decide to hang out a little longer.
  • @Wolf41035, please reconsider, I was dropped all the way down to newcomer, I have 34 years in the hobby and somewhat of an expert and able to give advice so my ranking doesn't matter, we are a brotherhood, all equal, nobody is better than anybody else,I'm still learning new things after all these years, I think of it as like Freemasonry, I've attained many titles but I'm still just a brother, no better than anyone else.
  • We have rankings? 
  • I'm pretty rank...
  • @Wolf41035, Hey guy, you've always been out there getting things together and finding new discussion topics. We've all been aware of the external and internal barriers that you face and still manage to contribute. They demoted all of us and are slowly restoring the titles that we had. Please be patient with them, look at the tangle P&C went through with their site update and that was their livelihood. It will get straightened out
    Don't leave just yet.
    You're a valued, generous member.

    Woodsman
  • Yeah, I've been reduced to a Newcomer but only from  Apprentice.  I've lost loads of points too.  I have to be honest, while I don't obsess over it, I do pay attention to the points I earn and my rankings.  The bottom line regarding this site for me is I've learned a lot and I feel I contribute to the various discussions as best I can.  It's a great source for pipe news, information regarding various tobaccos, sales, etc.  I don't think there's a better site out there.    
  • <<I don't think there's a better site out there.>>   I second that!!!!
  • I too got busted to Newcomer from Apprentice. With no apparent explanation. Probably a computer hiccup or something. Or is it perhaps more nefarious? It did happen just after the Eclipse.

    I do however hope to be "made" again as I was appreciating getting salutes everywhere I went, being called "sir" by store clerks, and I think my town  was going to finally honor me with a parade. I had been online looking for a sash and a top hat....now all of that is on hold. This morning the gas station attendant pointed at me and laughed, the coffee lady said "oh, you're just a newcomer again", and I now understand a petition has been started to run me out of town because of my fall from grace.

    I am going to write letters to my Senators and House Representative who usually are no help, but this is something I think they would agree is without a doubt "unconstitutional", probably discriminatory just because of my German- Irish roots, with ancestors being here ONLY since the 1700-1800's. The Veterans Administration probably won't help (surprise). I am considering contacting the SPLC, and I am looking for some march or demonstration somewhere.
  • You da man, @pwkarch, you da man......   Nicely satirical without being hurtful..... I like it!!!
  • Strictly satirical.....I would miss the involvement of Wolf. I really could not care less as to my 'rank" here. I am just happy to be a regular guy. I am proud to say I think almost 2 out of every 10 people I know would say I am "tolerable", and my family will send me birthday cards occasionally. I do recycle, I have been known to hold doors for others, and I go to Mass every Sunday.

    Points being, I am not judged by my rank here (this is his alter ego typing here: he really DOES carebut by my everyday life and how I treat all people. I am proud to be associated here with all of you fine fellow pipe smokers to share information and have conversations that enrich us all. Wolf, hang in there buddy, we would ALL miss you and your input.

    (Alter Ego, I told you about that crap when I am tying, knock it off)


  • OK Guys and one idiot on another post, not throwing a tantrum by the way. just tired of sites lying and doing things and not appreciating their members, tired of things changing not for the better at times and tired of helping people, sites and pages just to get crapped on.  The one person that said I was having a tantrum is the same that we have never gotten along and most likely never will, he has issues, I have tried to be nice, I have ignored his comments, personally I feel he is an assclown and should keep his piehole shut unless he has postive things to say!  As for the rest of you even ones being sarcastic, I do miss you guys and love reading your comments and posts, I am just old and tired and feel very unappreciated a lot lately.  Admins that post things and don't answer but are still posting days later just rubs me the wrong way.  I gave them an out on announcing 4 winners by saying they were just replying to some of our comments and they still said they would get in touch with us and never have, we help them better the site and they crap all over us at times, we are the site yet they play with us.....not just this site, it happens on a lot of sites.  Look at facebook with firearms posts, groups and pages, hunting pages and groups and trapping pages and groups, we can't post a live animal in a live trap yet an anti hunting group can post a bloody looking picture of an anti hunter/trapper killing a hunter or trapper or they can get away with threats to us but we can't stand our ground.....Now Instagram is starting to remove gun pictures yet allow almost complete nude pictures and porn advertisements and accounts.....
    So you see it wasn't just this site I was talking about when I said what I said, it is a lot of sites turning on members. 
    As I said it is not so much the rankings that bothered me, it was the disrespect they are giving us.  The rankings were OK the way they were, we asked to increase the points to get more rankings not screw them up and demote all of us...lol  Again I really don't care, personally I think they should just take away the system all together that way we are all equals and some people won't get a big head. 
     
    So thanks for the concern guys, thanks for caring and thanks for liking my posts and comments, I just think the site and admins should show us more respect. 
     Also they should give us credit when they use our posts and comments on Instagram or to make a hot topic tagged to the top.  Many of us have had our posts and comments used by them without a mention that we came up with it, they claim it like they are gods and never thank us or credit us in their posts, this also happens on Twitter and Facebook, they read our posts and our comments and then they use them and a lot of times it is to get new members, I don't mind them using something I have typed on here but for gods sake don't claim it as yours, give a little credit to us members for our posts and comments, might just get more people to want to join when they see it is coming from active members! 
     

  • Good to see you're hanging around
  • Wolf, glad you've decided to stay. Try to let go of some of your aggravation; it's not good for you....

  • Hang in here @Wolf41035. Maybe someday @NicoleSTGLaneLtd will explain how everything is working now.
  • Glad you haven't left, the site wouldn't be the same without you.
  • Glad to see your still on, don't worry about the money for the pipe, you like it, just send me your address and I'll send it to you.
  • I have issues, anyone that pays attention to what I post has figured that one out.

    This post reminds me about an episode that happened years ago. I was hanging out on a bowhunting forum that was extremely popular, and had lots of traffic. I can't remember who the guy was that got under my skin, or why he got under my skin. All I remember, was during dinner, my girlfriend looked at me and asked if I was OK. It was at that moment I realized that I had been spending way too much time on that forum. Specifically, I came to the conclusion that I had been spending too much time on the internet, and needed to balance my activities.

    Even folks who had personal computers in the early 90's, learned who the trolls were straight out of the gate. Let a psychologist analyze troll activity, and they will most likely tell you that the trolls have more deep seated issues than anyone on the forums.

  • @Wolf41035 Glad to see you've peeked in on us for a visit. Maybe our positive thought waves and genuine concern for you worked their way to you. It apparently worked well enough for you to reconsider and join us again. We'll wait out the current glitch in the system together. The entire world is currently going through a massive 'hyper-kinetic clusterf*ck', - hurricanes, wild fires, floods, droughts, earthquakes, and a massive solar flare headed our way - so why should we expect this place to be exempt. I'll take a temporary loss of status and a few badges over trying to smoke my pipe in 185 mph winds any day.

    And lets not forget - I sent my recently injured pipe, which was perfectly safe in Indiana - down to Florida - right into the path of a Cat 5 Hurricane. Not very smart. Poor little guy is probably scared to death, trapped  all alone in a cardboard box as gale force winds split the seams, creating  a swirling vortex of bubble wrap and parts of his tattered body. I can almost hear that horrible high pitch whistling sound as the wind travels down the bowl and through the airway and mortise of the shank. Calling out to me in fear .. "Joe ... oh Joe ... why hast thou forsaken me?" (My pipe is Catholic). What kind of pipe owner would put his pipe through that kind of torment after snapping it in half just days before? I'm so ashamed.

    See, this is the kind of nonsense you might have missed if you left us permanently.

  • I understand what y'all are saying. Sometimes life gets weird and people do stupid things or had narrsascitc tendencies. One thing is true and you can't change it.  We are all just human trying to get by and enjoy what we can in this very short life. I can only control me. I can also decide not to allow myself to overthink what I observe and not take part in what is wrong in my eyes. Life is too short and I want to enjoy as much of it as I can with people I choose. See, it's simple. Just my two cents worth. 
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